Not to be confused with the “Law of Attraction,” the concept peddled by the best-selling self-help New Age book and film, The Secret: the idea that, if you just want something hard enough—“I think I can, I think I can”–it will eventually come into your life. Taken at a literal level, of course, this is plainly stupid and easy to mock. But the book wouldn’t be so successful if it didn’t contain a kernel of truth. The message resonates with people because it taps into a brute and basic psychological truth: that people who are generally open and optimistic will generally attract other people and opportunities that will generally get them what they want and where they want to go. It’s not a law of gravity, but a pragmatic strategy to help us navigate life.
One other such strategy is what we might call the Law of Subtraction. We can come at this concept by defining it in terms of what it’s not: the Law of Addition, which rules our lives more often than not. What is the Law of Addition?
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Thanks to all those who attended our first Socrates Café Brooklyn, “What is Success?” It was a real pleasure meeting all of you, hearing your stories and struggles, and peeling back the veneer of our conventional views on success to try and approach the heart of the matter. I think we often fail to realize the power and importance of throwing ourselves into dialogue with people from different walks of life and suspending, if only for a few minutes or a couple of hours, our basic assumptions about ourselves, our trajectory in life, and our view of the world. It is not easy–indeed, in our discussion, we hit a few bumps in the road and the engine stalled a few times; but confusion is the crucible of a higher, deeper, rounder form of consciousness. And we had some unpleasant exchanges; it became clear pretty quickly that the philosophical is the personal. But overall, I think we had a good first showing and I look forward to our next meeting in January.
Some highlights from our discussion:
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